Judgment and Self-blaming

  Hello!

 Have you ever been largely engrossed in something then suddenly remembering a past mistake you regret? Something you wish to change? Something that you wish that the ground would've swallowed you alive before it actually happened. No matter how much time passes by that one mistake, it ends up coming back to mind with all of its unhealed pain. 

  The reason I am writing this blog is that I am experiencing that type of self-blaming for that one mistake that I did. Every time I remember such mistake, my chest squeezes itself, and I cringe so badly. You can't help calling yourself stupid just by remembering that mistake. Maybe you blame yourself for how easily it could have been avoid or how much damage it caused. 

  Here's something worth knowing: whenever you're experiencing emotional distress, no matter how emotionally intelligent you think you are, you are still going to fall for the mistake of self-blaming.

Why? It's because of this 2nd worse source of the human misery:

The amyglada.

Of course, the 1st worse source of human misery is periods.

 It's something that everyone does. Everyone does mistakes, but not everyone learns from them. Maybe that's the best thing that should have been done :) Maybe God knows better and left you to do that mistake. You never really know...

  Even if you can't see obvious advantages, accept that it's normal to do mistakes :) Everyone had done stupid mistakes in their lives, and that's how they avoid doing them next time.

 Another thing worth mentioning is that most probably everyone forgot about it, and you're just weeping over nothing. If you don't think so, no worries, everyone WILL forget about it because they have other things to worry about.

Maybe they're too busy blaming THEMSELVES for the mistakes THEY did and also think that everyone remembers THEIR mistakes :)

The more you know, ladies and gentlemen. The. More. You. Know.

  Indeed, people are mostly bothered by the things they did and not what you did. So chill out for a bit, and go watch a comedy show or eat popcorn. Enjoy doing anything. Anything can be enjoyable, even it was the power of the damn sun.

Absorb the power my dear, photosynthesising readers: